That's the main reason i fell away as a teen & into my early 20's, was from my home being a "church going home" & not a godly home. Plus being in public school & influenced by the world more than the church & my parents. Love this article! It needs to be heard.
So many things that stand out. Scouting, Lads to Leaders, Bible class, Youth group, Camp, and meals, and speaking about current events. Also godly grandparents that took an interest in our kids. Honestly, if you “do", but dont explain the “why", for what you do you stand a much better chance of losing them or they might be marginal adult Christian children.
I tried to do the bible devotional thing and failed and failed. But living as a Christian speaks volumes to your kids.
One time we took a side trip to Vegas while on vacation. My then 18 year-old son experienced an absolute eye opener! My child was horrified to witness the blatant sinful behavior on display all round. As a Christian family we had gone there to sight-see and maybe do some shopping. Vegas had promoted Fremont St. as being family friendly! We couldn't get out of there fast enough…And my 18 year old was stunned…fortunately for the better. But the dark side showed its ugly head that day and my youngest chose the light over darkness.
Today all three of our children are faithful productive Christians. They have their own faith, not borrowed faith. And our family remains tight knit and close.
Dads, you must talk about your faith, and why you have that faith. Im stunned by some who say, "yeah there are some good points to Christianity”. Those poor kids stand almost no chance.
I would also encourage everyone to speak to their children about current events…(age appropriate obviously) Especially talk about things that impact Christianity as a whole. Pray together for some of the christians around the world who are being persecuted. The Christians in Iran, the Christians in Ukraine and Russia… the Christians in Nigeria… the Christians in South Africa. Etc. etc. etc.… and especially pray about Christians here in America! 🇺🇸
Political topics, abortion, LGBTQ, and transgenderism need to be discussed as well… if your kids are in public school, you need to ask what they’re being taught and what the Bible says about these topics.
Honoring parents, honoring the elderly, respect, and what our Bible teaches us about all of these subjects.
And here is one that I never thought I would have to discuss with my kids. During my daughter’s school years in our homeschool, three of her friends came to me and told me that they wanted to be homeschooled. Of course I asked why. Apparently boys at school were touching them inappropriately. I went to the parents immediately. Unfortunately, nothing was done after that. 😱 There is NO protection for these young ladies in public school. I later asked some of my friends at church whose kids were in public high school. They brought it up with their daughters. Several had the same thing happen to them as well. I guess sexual bullying is a thing…🔥🤦🏽♀️ please talk to your kids parents.
How about this one… The “soft parenting” movement? 😵 Believe it or not, my teenagers have VERY strong opinions about the young parents and their children at church. 😱
The teenagers in the youth group talk amongst themselves and discuss this stuff. It’s very interesting to hear what they have to say…🤔
Open lines of communication are a must… The devil is “pulling out all the stops” to get our children… The Bible has everything we need to talk to our kids…
I completely agree . After many hours of self inquiry , I admit our home failed. I failed . Failed to share my relationship with God , depended on a great church and school to instruct my kids .. hoped my husband would take the lead . One child turned away from God after a terrible marriage ended. Now years later, she’s got one trans daughter , one purposely sexy daughter and a little one who can sing along to K-Pop Demon Hunters .
Cause and Effect .
Guess what parents - they don’t come back for advice after they leave … so give them a grounding while you can .
Exactly.
That's the main reason i fell away as a teen & into my early 20's, was from my home being a "church going home" & not a godly home. Plus being in public school & influenced by the world more than the church & my parents. Love this article! It needs to be heard.
So many things that stand out. Scouting, Lads to Leaders, Bible class, Youth group, Camp, and meals, and speaking about current events. Also godly grandparents that took an interest in our kids. Honestly, if you “do", but dont explain the “why", for what you do you stand a much better chance of losing them or they might be marginal adult Christian children.
I tried to do the bible devotional thing and failed and failed. But living as a Christian speaks volumes to your kids.
One time we took a side trip to Vegas while on vacation. My then 18 year-old son experienced an absolute eye opener! My child was horrified to witness the blatant sinful behavior on display all round. As a Christian family we had gone there to sight-see and maybe do some shopping. Vegas had promoted Fremont St. as being family friendly! We couldn't get out of there fast enough…And my 18 year old was stunned…fortunately for the better. But the dark side showed its ugly head that day and my youngest chose the light over darkness.
Today all three of our children are faithful productive Christians. They have their own faith, not borrowed faith. And our family remains tight knit and close.
Dads, you must talk about your faith, and why you have that faith. Im stunned by some who say, "yeah there are some good points to Christianity”. Those poor kids stand almost no chance.
I would also encourage everyone to speak to their children about current events…(age appropriate obviously) Especially talk about things that impact Christianity as a whole. Pray together for some of the christians around the world who are being persecuted. The Christians in Iran, the Christians in Ukraine and Russia… the Christians in Nigeria… the Christians in South Africa. Etc. etc. etc.… and especially pray about Christians here in America! 🇺🇸
Political topics, abortion, LGBTQ, and transgenderism need to be discussed as well… if your kids are in public school, you need to ask what they’re being taught and what the Bible says about these topics.
Honoring parents, honoring the elderly, respect, and what our Bible teaches us about all of these subjects.
And here is one that I never thought I would have to discuss with my kids. During my daughter’s school years in our homeschool, three of her friends came to me and told me that they wanted to be homeschooled. Of course I asked why. Apparently boys at school were touching them inappropriately. I went to the parents immediately. Unfortunately, nothing was done after that. 😱 There is NO protection for these young ladies in public school. I later asked some of my friends at church whose kids were in public high school. They brought it up with their daughters. Several had the same thing happen to them as well. I guess sexual bullying is a thing…🔥🤦🏽♀️ please talk to your kids parents.
How about this one… The “soft parenting” movement? 😵 Believe it or not, my teenagers have VERY strong opinions about the young parents and their children at church. 😱
The teenagers in the youth group talk amongst themselves and discuss this stuff. It’s very interesting to hear what they have to say…🤔
Open lines of communication are a must… The devil is “pulling out all the stops” to get our children… The Bible has everything we need to talk to our kids…
I completely agree . After many hours of self inquiry , I admit our home failed. I failed . Failed to share my relationship with God , depended on a great church and school to instruct my kids .. hoped my husband would take the lead . One child turned away from God after a terrible marriage ended. Now years later, she’s got one trans daughter , one purposely sexy daughter and a little one who can sing along to K-Pop Demon Hunters .
Cause and Effect .
Guess what parents - they don’t come back for advice after they leave … so give them a grounding while you can .
P.S. I know HE’s got this !